Owning a pet should be a pleasure,
and with the proper foresight in its selection it certainly can be.
The most important criteria are your expectations as to how you want
this pet to integrate into your family's lifestyle. Are you looking
for a dog to jog with or do you want a warm bundle of fur to sit in
your lap? Do people in your household have allergies? Does someone
want to spend time grooming a long hairy coat each day? How many
responsibilities for their care do you realistically want to assign
to your children and will they be able to meet those expectations?
The answers to these lifestyle questions are the keys to determining
which pet is best for your household.
To me, in my dual role as father of
three and as a veterinarian, the single most important trait for any
pet of any size is that it have a gentle, friendly personality.
Everyone has different esthetic values that come into play when
considering different breeds of dogs or cats and you can certainly
find individuals within any breed that can meet the requirements of
a good temperament.
Because all puppies and kittens are
cute and cuddly I will always advise seeing the parents when
possible, to get an idea as to how these babies will turn out. I
heartily recommend taking a day to go to an all-breed dog or cat
show to see the various breeds in person, how they act and how they
look. The reactions of your children to the different sizes and
levels of activity that they encounter when face to face with their
prospective pet might surprise you. The frenetic movements of a
little dog can often lead to its being dropped from the arms of a
child not properly instructed in how to securely hold it, and the
lumbering movements of a gentle giant can often result in an
unintentional knockdown of the child.
Getting a pet from an animal shelter
or private adoption group is also a viable option. The advantage of
taking this route is that you can see the finished product -- an
adult that will not be growing anymore and with a fully developed
personality, or what you see is what you get! In addition, consider
the powerful message that you send to your children as they witness
the inherent goodness of rescuing a condemned pet.
In general, in thinking about dogs,
the breeds that I sense have the highest degree of owner
satisfaction for a young family are golden retrievers, yellow labs,
pugs, schnauzers, poodles, English bulldogs and German shepherds.
Breeds that I generally advise against are dalmatians, chows,
rottweillers, cocker and springer spaniels ands sharpies, primarily
due to their predilection for biting. Breeds not mentioned here may
be suitable or unsuitable based on the priorities of the family.
A quick parting note about allergies
to pets. Generally, curly-coated animals offer the least allergenic
stimulation for the allergy sufferer. The source of the allergy,
pet dander (skin flakes), is more effectively trapped in the hair
and less is exfoliated directly onto the susceptible individual.
Using cream rinses after a shampoo will help also by creating a
thin veneer which seals the potential flakes in, and diminishes the
rate at which they fall off and provoke allergic responses.
Good luck!
